I think that it has been 20 months. The sad part is that it is hard to remember. Now that I am divorced, I have to work my way back to being my happy self again. I think that I'll take my time and get things right the second time around.

The people on the OTHER board can get an idea of the pain that they cause in this world.

Oh wait... This was supposed to be fun... There is trampoline available in my back yard! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Cinderelly,

But, I still can't see a BOB doing the trick. Nope, nope, nope. For me, it seems to be so heavily emotionally related, that I just don't think a machine would meet the need Two words: Rascally Rabbit. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I completely agree with Roughneck...of course, sex is only fabulous with someone you love. But sex is a physical need...a stress reliever and within a healthy relationship--one of the best things on the planet. In an unhealthy relationship...well, it can still be good--maybe one of the things that holds it together long enough to be made well again. JMHO.

Lurk
Lurk

what's a Rascally Rabbit - besides Bugs Bunny?

Well, I don't know that much about the Rascally Rabbit but I am willing to bet that it is something like the Eager Beaver! I have to admit something that was very, very bad behavior on my part before I was forced out of my home. My x had what she called the goody bag that had it's place up in the top of the closet.

Just because I was angry doesn't forgive the awful things that I did but at the time it felt good to do it!

I took the goody bag down, took every BOB out. banged them on the floor till they broke and then took the batteries out. I also mixed the KY liqiud bottle with cinnamon oil! OUCH!!!!! HHHOOOTTT!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Yes, I know, BAD ROUGHNECK! But it just goes to show you what happens when a man is scorned! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Roughneck, Good for you! or you could have put Vicks inhaler in there too! Heard that one really does a number, LOL, this is starting to make me feel sad, going to my bestfriends wedding today. Not going to be easy but who knows who will be there. Trying to look on the bright side!

I have gone on a couple dates and I have not slammed there hand in a door yet! Have a great weekend all!

WTG Roughneck!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Nice to know that men can get all emotional too! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Darn, I told myself I was staying OFF this thread!!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Well if you liked what I did with the BOB's and the KY you would love to hear what I did to her toothbrush!!!! No, No, I can't say!!!! LOL! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Note to self:

Never get on Roughneck's bad side!!

You know how the movies show guys rolling around the floor with their hands between their legs after a shot down there? That's what my mind is doing right now.

Oohhhh. That had to hurt... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Ouch... this question hurts, since it brings to mind that XH is definitely ahead of the sexual satisfaction game. But, I refuse to use another just for my own immediate needs. I think?

A rascally rabbit is a type of B.O.B. a.k.a Jack

But keep it well away from Roughneck. He likes to hunt down those Wrascally Wabbits and pummel them rendering them ineffective!

January 2001....about 545 days! No wonder I am so TENSE!!! LOL
BH

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">But keep it well away from Roughneck. He likes to hunt down those Wrascally Wabbits and pummel them rendering them ineffective!</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">That's right! Send me your BOB and I will render it uncompus-mintus too! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I am a equal opportunity BOB abuser! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />

SO WHAT'S IT TO YA! LOL!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

For any lurkers from the other board... 3 hours and my WW asked for it.

I usually just lurk on this board (my real place is on another board), but this thread finally made me post. I realize there is a lot of hurt out there and I sympathize with you.

BTW I agree with all of the posters who equate good SF with real love. I'll admit my SF was not all about love but like FRANKLMYDEARS said it is still a stress reliever and good so it can't hurt in my efforts to re-create a real M.

Hey Roughneck, as soon as I can afford the upgraded version I'll send ya the old one. Until then I'll keep mine!

BTW, what did you do to her Toothbrush? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

HopelessinAZ,

Just know I wasn't singling you out, I was talking to everyone when I said "your"!

Let's just say that she was kissing my dogs a$$ while she was brushing her teeth and leave it at that! Nuff said! LOL!

<small>[ July 06, 2002, 10:03 PM: Message edited by: Roughneck ]</small>

I knew your reply was all encompassing but I could only speak for myself.

On that toothbrush thing, ROTFLMAO!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Not divorced or divorcing - hope you don't mind my responding.

Sex with H is a semi-annual event. Had SF May 24, 2002 (before that, June 10, 2001 and Dec 3, 2001 - before that Feb 2, 2000 and Oct 2000) and only once in 1999. Based on past relations, I can expect again in Novenber 2002, maybe. H has no drive (even went for Viagra, won't use it). There are no EA's, PA's, no porn, no past sexual abuse, no OM/OW for either one of us, no health or weight problemms, etc. Just total lack of desire on his part - no hugs, no kisses, no snuggling, etc. I find it very hard to deal with.

just had to catch up with everyones responses and for anyone who was wondering - the trampoline is something that I recommend that you just have to try as soon as you get a chance. The beach was fun this weekend also - Gee I get to have great sex just about every night but he still wants to divorce me because he's "just not happy" - Makes you wonder about how deep the fog really is?

Hey Bill!! I'm crashing this one-long time no see all!!
The answer to your question is 2 days!!!!!!!!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
Love ya all and miss ya, my life is wonderful!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by White Dove:
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The answer to your question is 2 days!!!!!!!!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I think I speak for everyone when I say, YOU DOG.....

Glad to hear, your life is wonderful, an update would be nice. Come to think of it my life is pretty darn wonderful too, except that whole no sex thingy........

Billy