Yes... I am angry.
Related to
Nudism... and young children and
Nudism & Kids... II!
I did leave court feeling I had accomplished all I set out to do.
The judge thoroughly chastised my xW, the OM who tagged along, and even my xW's attorney.
The judge said that the bedroom door (xW's and OM's) must be closed... my xW made a point in describing the "openness" in the household... nudism-wise. The judge didn't buy it... and kept on talking about propriety, even as her attorney made a stand to defend nudism!
The judge made it clear to the OM... he was not be anywhere near "butt naked" (her words) in front of the kids...
...xW's lawyer then asked (@ss that he was)... "would it make a difference if they were married?"...
...the judge gave a cold, terse "
NO"... and further added... that to my kids... the OM is a "stranger"!
The judge virtually ridiculed the "master's thesis" write-up (11 years old) my xW included in her rational for "social nudism" as being the key to "self-esteem". The judge said... if my xW wishes to appeal... that next time she is to bring many expert witnesses... and that it will cost her lots... (adding that she will pay for the court costs... "with many zeros... at the end of it").
Everything and I mean everything... was complete chastisement of my xW... the OM... and her lawyer!
I asked for 3 items (4 if you include her pating my legal fees)...
1. not being allowed to take the kids to any nudist camp
2. not allowing anybody to practice nudism in the presence of my kids
3. not allowing my xW to practice nudism in front of my kids
When I left the courthouse...
...I thought all three... were granted me...
...I was euphoric... (net the attorney's fees I had to pay)
Then...
...when xW came to pick of the kids (and I, first telling them... no nudism on points 1 through 3)...
...my stepson went out to talk to his mom (xW)...
...and when he came back... he said... she DID win the right to practice nudism in front of the kids (point #3)!... I still believe I won points #1 & #2... but have to verify this when the written ruling comes out.
I was floored!
It's not at all what I heard in court...
...and so I quickly called my attorney on the cell phone...
...and with a pregnant pause in excess of 45 seconds of speechlessness...
...my attorney said... it was true... she could practice nudism in the home... in front of my kids!
I'm angry... I'm upset... I'm flabbergasted!
I've already asked my attorney (perhaps former attorney) for the write-up on the ruling... due in a few days...
...and the FULL transcript of the court hearing!
Tomorrow, I'll write to virtually every psychologist in the state...
...and find ones that back "modesty, purity, morality, and COMMON SENSE"... ...as part of their therapy...
...and true 'full' propriety (if not based on basic morals... what is this based on?!)
I'll find some proper, current and relevant research papers...
I'll get the cannon lawyer (friend of a friend) to spell out in plain English the church's teaching on social nudism...
I'll get the most aggressive attorney in the state...
...and appeal.
If it takes me to bankruptcy... so be it.
God is my God... money is not my God.
Heaven help my children!
Your prayers help so much my friends...
...but evil sometimes still prevails... for a time!
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Jim/NSR
<small>[ August 31, 2002, 06:33 AM: Message edited by: NSR ]</small>