Now I am happily remarried w/ a new life. I just want to encourage you all that it can be done. Its good to see some old faces here-hello lost husband, faithfulwife and Cinderella-keep on helping them out you guys yourdoing great.

You will all make it. I know its hard right now but soon you will look behind and see it all in a clear picture. My ex-did marry the woman he left me for (about a week after the divorce-not even 7 months after walking out) But I now can talk to him and his wife in a civil matter so we can get business done. Yes, I see their struggles but I have gotten past revenge and anger. To tell you the truth I don't really care about hearing gossip about them. I am involved too much in my new life. I went back to school and got my degree and I am continuing on w/ school. I have a wonderful new husband- I stuck to some solid rules while dating and he met the standards I had set with God. (There is no denying that God sent him) SOme of those rules were-I waited to date until I had self esteem so I knew I was worth only the best-that took over a year. I wanted to give myself two years to get to know the new me and that is a huge key factor. You can all do it!!!! Have a great day and life!

White Dove,

Thanks for coming back with some happy news. Sounds like your life has gotten back on track. That is great! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

God Bless!
mike