Has anyone read "When the One You Love Wants to Leave" by Dr. Donald Harvey? It was recommended to me given my situation. I'm trying to stop my pursuing behavior and become more detached from my spouse who has filed on me. I think it is similar to tough love techniques and cutting-off communication except for business-type issues and dealing with the kids.

Of course, if anyone has applied it, I'm interested in outcomes.

Thanks,
Jody