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Joined: Apr 2003
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Joined: Apr 2003
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Is anyone out there tonight?
It has been quite some time since I last posted (feel like I am going to confession?). Father, it has been XX years since my last confession...
After almost 10 months of divorce, I still miss her.....why? Like a lot of people that post here, I feel betrayed even though I know I had a part in the demise....but I am sure mine is worse then most. I guess maybe the reason it has to be as ugly as it has is because it was as beautiful as it was?....you cant have an even balance in life?...ying vs yang...yes vs no...black vs....well, you get the picture....
so is there anyone out there with the answers they have come up with?
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Joined: May 2004
Posts: 55
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Good post.
I have had occasion to review my 20 year life with my ex, with all the pictures, I would admit it was good until we hit the shoals. But that is in that past. I can't live there. She is a new person I can't identify since she had an affair and the kids moved out. I went from the best thing she ever had to a worthless slug.
Going forward I can't live with the new her that appeared in the last 2 years since the kids grew up.
I'm excited about my future. It's winter now, but spring is coming. A whole new adventure awaits me.
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