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#779061 11/04/04 08:18 AM
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Are you ok? How are things going?

Know that we are thinking about you and praying that you and the kids are safe.

#779062 11/04/04 05:18 PM
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Hi Elan, thank you for thinking of us <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I've been busy studying. Am taking an excelerated psch class...18 chapters in 8 weeks..test on 4 chaps every monday...really difficult to do at this point in my life...Thought I did bad on Mondays test but skimmed by with a B+. My first B. So much for my 4.0 GPA. I don't see keeping my A record with this class. My problem is when it comes to myself I am a perfectionist. My IC and I are working on that. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I keep struggling trying to get thru school. 2 times I have had to drop a semester. Once because H was at ow house while I was in class and I was obsessed with finding the truth. Hard to concentrate when your heart is broken.

Last time I dropped so my oldest DD could go. I babysat. Got her started and she dropped after 6 weeks. I was really PO'd about that.

Found out yesterday that if I change my major I don't need this class anyway. I takes up all of my time, and I want to move soon...so don't know if I will finish it or not.

I just posted on GQ11 about my moving plans.
The house is empty so I can start packing.

Danneill

#779063 11/04/04 09:26 PM
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Danneil...

Just think of this..I was in the midst of separation (he refused to leave the house), I was in school full-time (being told on a regular basis how stupid I was), was told I was neglecting the kids (they were in school fulltime and I would race home after class and have supper on the table, do all the dishes/housework/laundry and sit down at 11PM to study), my dad was diagnosed with cancer and I was the one helping the family out....

Flash forward -- the EX is out of my life, I graduated on the DEAN'S LIST <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> , I was the BEST example I could be for my kids.... sadly my dad passed away but he sure was smiling down on me at my grad! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Remember...there is always a reason for everything. Do the BEST you can with what God has handed you TODAY. Worry about things one hour at a time and work towards one more thing on your list tomorrow! You'll do just fine.

Keep us posted so we don't worry!


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