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H is having dinner with me tomorrow night whe n he brings the kids back. After that we are going to finalize our "marital termination agreement" and then send it to the attorney. Any suggestions on last minute things I can say or do to ilicit some sign or hope that he really doesn't want this? Need quick help please!<P>------------------<BR>Rachel :)<P>
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Hi<BR>The only thing that I can suggest is to lay your cards down on the table be honest tell him you really don't want this and perhaps ask for more time so that he can be really sure that it is what he wants, tell him you love him and he means the world to you, other than this I have no idea.<P>Jenny<P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<BR>Paula Cole<P>
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camarinick,<P>Ditto what Jenny said. If H is totally committed to OW, probably won't work though.<P>Can try 'For the children'.<P>Would being completely unreasonable in the current termination agreement by you more time or would it just force H to dig his heels in and hate you?<P>Could you tell him you really don't want the divorce so you will not cooperate, or is he offering a fair deal that you don't want to lose? <P>Give it your best effort - however it turns out you have a tough road to travel. Like I need to tell you that.<P>God bless you and the children<P>LH<P>
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