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I post here very briefly in February. Some of you were very helpful. My story is here<p> http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=35&t=002441<p> Very brief summary is that my fiance had a brief 4 month relationship that produced an OC. I contemplated weather to stay or go. I chose to go. It is by far the best decision I ever made. It has been almost 2 months since I ended things but I feel like I have my life back. I'll be moving to England at the end of next week and will start my new job in May. This board has helped me more than words can say. I did not do a lot of posting but reading all the stories helped me make the final decision. Thanks!!!<p>McKenzie
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I am glad to hear that you have made a decision which will send your life in the right direction. I am proud of you and wish the best of luck in England. How exciting to be young, unattached, and adventurous. Way to go!!!
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I have to say that I agree with tryin that you are fortunate to have this revealed to you in advance. I believe that you have spared yourself much heartache and grief because even if your fiance decided not to support the OC with any contact, there might have been CS issues down the road... And besides that, just knowing that he could or would do something like that to you would make you wonder if he would or could ever do it again down the road. I'm sure you'll find Mr. Right because at least now you know for sure what you DON'T want!!! Best wishes!
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McKenzie22,<p>Nice to get an update from you. I'm glad you moved on with your life dealing with this situation isn't worth it. Especially if you can walk away.<p>
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