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One of the ow my WS is seeing.Is freaking out calling his family and my ws telling him she's pregnant.The girl is 21,my ws is 24.
He called all upset saying he broke it off with her and then she said she was pregnant.
Is this normal!?
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If you mean is it normal for the OW to cry pregnant when she loses her man, I would say "no." But it isn't unheard of, either.
Do you and WS have children together? Does he believe OW is telling the truth?
In any case, if you want to save your marriage, this woman and her child (if eventually there is a child) might be a part of your future. You and WS needs to have some discussions on what to do if she is indeed pregnant and if indeed the child is his child.
Peace.
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Mary,
Just went back and read your story. There is an old saying: "Good Riddance to Bad Rubbish." Honey, I know you don't necessarily think this way right now, but you and your son have been handed a blessing in getting this man out of your life.
I know you still have feelings for him, but his violence against you alone would be reason enough to divorce. And to hear him rub it in your face about the other women (and most of it is probably lies anyway)? Seducing his whores in front of you in your own home? He is a sadistic creep with major psychological problems.
You are young. Leave this loser in the dust and dust yourself off. Go back to school. Think about what kind of a life you want to create for you and your son. Then go for it. And along the way I am sure you'll find a wonderful man who would love to be a daddy to your boy.
God bless you!
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