My wife felt that I didn't love her, she felt I wouldn't care anyway nor would I be hurt. She is a loving and caring person for the most part. I don't think she has realized how many hearts will be affected by this affair. She seems to be full of guilt and hurting inside herself. Do I support her or remind her how many people will be devistated if this continues or once it is discovered. Right now, I may be the only one who knows.