Last week my husband told me that he had an affair and now the OW is pregnant. He says he doesn't love her. I thought that my marriage was as strong as a rock. I never saw it coming. I love him. I don't want to loose him. He tells me everyday that i should not be down about this and that He is not going to give up on us. I don't know how I should feel but I know I am still in love with him and I can't imagine being apart from him. I am seeking some sound adviceon what to do and how i can move forward with this pain that feels like a knife stabbing me in my back. Even though i love I can't stand the thought of another woman having his child when i am still with him.

<small>[ October 28, 2003, 04:48 PM: Message edited by: lovinghim ]</small>