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I need advice on those who have moved cross country to get away from weird ex-ow's etc.
What are the legal logistics? How does one retain a lawyer in another state for purposes of "just in case" etc.???
Obviously, there will be job and other healh insurance changes...
I'm interested in hearing how you did it and what were the steps that you took to keep things in a no contact situation.
I'm really asking the No Contact people, as ex-ow is why we are moving away.
Also, did anyone ever have an ex-ow follow you when you moved? We think ours is crazy enough to do that.
Please advice or share your experiences,
Thanks,
Twiisty
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Such a shame you had to do this b/c of OW!! I'm not sure I understand what you are asking though. If you moved so far away, how would she find you two if neither of you will tell her where?
What exactly is she doing to harass you? Does she still want your H? I would think as long as your H is not giving her signals that eventually she'll stop. I know that doesn't sound too encouraging but unfortunately that's all I can think of. Keep me posted.
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I pposted for you in other forum...
NGU
<small>[ December 19, 2003, 04:30 PM: Message edited by: Not Giving Up ]</small>
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This is an interesting question because H and I have "moving away" in the back of our minds if C starts "going bad" like it was before. I guess it would behoove us to know this information too. Too bad there aren't replys that answer it.
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That describes us! Here is basically the reply I gave Twiisty on the private forum:
XOW's state has a child support enforcement office that we did court ordered ch-support through, and it did not cost us anything (other than ch-support) nor the use of a lawyer. Ch-support goes through the state (now by auto-withdrawl; insurance premium also by auto-withdrawl); ch-support enforcement office has proof that H paid and a 3rd party to contact re: $ disputes. We could give XOW any address we wanted (like P.O. box), or even none at all.
I know some have settled out of court, so that might not be any help to you, but reconsider whether the amount can be lowered legally.
Good luck!
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