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I know this is a non issue really, but I did notice that a BUNCH of OC were born in November. Not only on this board but other ones I visit but not post.
My husband's was also but premature(November). Maybe thats why I payed attention.
Do you think its contributed to SPRING fever?
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O-M-G..
So funny you should say that because I SWEAR every freaking April/May/June of our marriage we are KILLING each other... in the house together all winter getting on each others nerves maybe? LOL!!
Really, OC was bory January in my case- the A was in the spring/ending summer. However, every spring BEFORE that and the one after, H and I ARE arguing and CLAWING OUR WAY out the door to go out.. with friends.. to clubs..... using the fight as an excuse.. and THATS how all of our troubles started.... we both were guilty of the ye old disappearing act when fighting (which meant TAKE ADVANTAGE). Sadly one spring he met someone in a BAR....
Spring fever has always been a "JOKE" between H and I. Not one very funny anymore, however!!
BUT that was then, this is now! We are changing though I SWEAR!! LOL
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Yeah talking about dreading SPRING every year when our troubles would start.
I recall that- I have been married for 17yrs and I use to dread it every year HE would take off more easily because he could walk in the spring/summer if he had the notion to . (we live in the midwest with the winter blizzards)
Yes ladies the fighting season.
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Nope, mine was "I'm all by myself and it the holiday's, <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> I bought you a gift, bo ho B**sh**! Well get a NON MM to see and you wont have that problem. Oh and I forgot, your back w/ your wife, poor me. WHATEVER. The past is a good place to leave this! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D
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Statistically, September is the #1 month for ALL birthdays in the northern hemisphere... keepin' warm in winter?!
Midwife told me this when my child was born in Sept. (OC born same month <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> ).
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LOL I always thought the sperm froze up in the winter LOL just kidding
I say this because all my children were born in April, June, & Feb We are in the midwest were we deal with some freezing temps.
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yah probably should leave this post/thread in the past becasue it does stir up some ugly stuff.
But OC b-day is in Jan, OW got pg in Apr----- month not only of MY birthday (great gift for me huh?) but in the same month H was buying me a new diamond ring SWEARING his undying love for me. We are not rich so this was supposed to be meaningful & sentimental! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
Our first child's birthday is also in Jan but he was a premie, I got pg in June-----our other 2 are both in June----couldn't have 'planned' it better-they even had the same due date. LOL
So we have 2 in Jan & 2 in June-go figure. **************** ***************** But enough of this yucky stuff-----A can happen any time & ow get pg any time-----& planned or not, I do firmly believe it was God's plan. Can't say I'm happy about that or even feel peace about it but I stand on it----God has a purpose, greater than me or whatever I could ever imagine so--I stand on that for comfort.
If nothing else-----if OW would NOT have gotten pg then maybe their A would NOT have ended & I would be the single mom today getting CS & fighting over visitation & feeling rejected & bitter. But I'm not------so thank GOD that our marriage survived & thrived.
For better OR worse--takes on a whole new meaning doesn't it? LOL ************** ************** celebrating our 12th anniversary next month by renewing our vows--so off to better thoughts & PLANS---woohoo! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <small>[ September 22, 2004, 11:05 AM: Message edited by: ktbunch ]</small>
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My H's OC was born in Jan. Ironically she was born the day before our 20th wedding anniversary. So we could never forget her birthday if we tried. My children were born - 2-Feb;1-Nov;1-June;1-Sep. My girls born in Feb, the boys born in the other months.
Interesting idea.
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Ours was in April... I have 1 August, 1 December & 1 April.
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I am not kidding OC was born April 1st. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
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My H oc was born in Dec. which means she got pg in March the month of his B-day.
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My H oc was born in Dec. which means she got pg in March the month of his B-day.
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CODY LOL that use to be one of my favorite days of the year. What a joke ha ha I know.
Then I found out the truth about OC on that day this year April fools day. Ruined it for me.
Well I never did like November much anyway....so no big deal for me.
See all these spring conception children Makes ya wonder.
Lonely315 Now you can use that as an excuse not to celebrate his birthday and save on the gift LOL just kidding. FYI I am a jokster and handle many uncomfortable or sad situations with humor (thus the april fools day reference) So forgive me if your not like that, I just feel if your laughing or find the humor in stuff its SO hard to cry. Which I am sick of doing.
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OC bday was Oct here which means she was concieved around my bday.
My kids were Jan and July. Jan seems to be a running bday theme so far.
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My OC was born end of May, 2004--around the 27th--don't know exact date. Interesting though because first due date was 6/15/04, then OW said it was 6/10/04 and then it was born end of May and it was her 1st baby--little odd to me.
My son's b-day is Jan. 1st.
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Children from our marriage are 2/16 11/18 & 12/20
My two oc are 1/23 & 6/1 The first was planned, talk about stupid. I got pregnant in April, Xmm birthday. The second was the last time we were together, Sept, and a total shock to me, last thing I wanted or needed was another child.
H oc is 2/23. H says Xow got pregnant the first time they had sex, but if that was the case she would have given birth before me. So she got pregnant in May
Can anyone tell that we both strayed at the same time?? the kids are excatly 1 month apart.
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Wow crazymum now i get your name.
come on brady bunch LOL
Do u ever have all the kids in the house at one time?
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Well of course 5 of them live with us. H considers my two Oc his own, gets extremly pissed off if anyone says different.
With H son, we get him every other weekend and every Wed night for a few hours.
This weekend we will have all 6 kids here, plus a friend or two. Normal for our household.
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Funny our first born son was due August 3rd but was born early July 19th,
OC- Boy was born August 3rd, 2004. Ouch talk about painful.
Nov/Dec use to be my favorite time of the year! Lori
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