Eac,

Checking in on you to see how you are. Anything new. How is the baby?

Faithful Follower:
My son is doing wonderful. He's always smiling and being a good baby. I love him so much. My husband's girlfriend did the pregnancy test and it was negative, but she said she wanted to do it again just to make sure. Despite my husbands worries about her being pregnant, he still had unprotected sex right after they did the paternity test. He says to me that he loves her, he just didn't want to hurt my feelings. Then he says that if my son is his son, he'll be willing to work things out, then he changes his mind. He is still unwilling to go to therapy for anything. He says the trust is gone. I told him I wouldn't return if there was no therapy.

I also wanted to ask you, is there a way that we can send private discussion messages to a particular person, there is something i'd like to discuss with you, but I don't want to post it for everyone to see, it's a matter that I hold very privately, but I need some advice. You have helped me out previously, that's why I ask.
HOpe to hear from you

eacl,

you can email me at killnme2004-mb@yahoo.com

eacl, you have mail <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Here is the thread I mentioned. Keep in mind for you I want you to consider forgiving yourself. You are not at a point in your M to be thinking about your H.
forgiveness

checking in to see how you made it through the holidays.

It has been rough. My husband said on christmas eve he wanted to work things out. He told me that he wasn't returning with his new girlfriend because they got in a fight. He said she was demanding and very impatient. She wants an engagement ring now. Then he stopped calling me. On the 26th I called him to tell him about splitting the car insurance. He was on his way to NY with her. He was to spend New Years over t here. I was devastated. I feel I cannot talk to him any more. I almost lost it last monday. I couldn't handle it any more. I'm still lost. I"m sorry I haven't emailed you. I moved in with my folks and I'm bearly setting up a phone and later an internet acct. I will try to get more often. I hope you are doing well.

I am sorry that things are so rough for you. I think it would best for you at this point to not be in contact with your H until you have DNA testing done or unless it is regarding financial matters. The A is addictive and no matter what he says, until he demonstrates to you that he is in NC it will likely continue. Just take care of you and that baby. Glad you are living with your folks and getting some help. {{eacl}}