Had a pleasant weekend with H and kids...celebrated my birthday. Very dificult, but I avoided any major LB. (He works 4 hrs away during week and I recently discovered he's been staying w/OW). I've been doing Plan A as best I can and seeing some baby steps...<P> Some good news: there's trouble in paradise. H and OW are having problems. Apparently, this weekend I contributed On his way out the door I tucked a card into his bag, hoping he would find it later. It said, "I love you, thanks for the wonderful birthday weekend. Your wife." <P>Well, bless my stars, OW snooped and found it...H got MAJOR LB from her. SHe's making big withdrawals -- and I'm doing my best to make the deposits. It takes every ounce of energy, especially knowing where he is at night. <P> Please pray that I can hang in there. I come so close to giving up (this has been going on a year now), but I can see some light at the end of this horrific tunnel and I'm just stubborn enough to go another day...<BR> <BR>

I JUST LOVE LITTLE POSTS LIKE THIS...... !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HA HA HA<P>keep up the good work!<P>prayers coming your way!<BR>

I pray for the day that I too can post a message of perceived "trouble in paradise!" Thank God for his provision for your marriage and that continue to pray their relationship may continue to be exposed and revealed for what it is (or isn't) while He works on both you and your husband. Thanks for sharing your good news.