Not to long ago I ask for some Christian websites and got one that I looked at and even posted a couple of times on.<P>I was looking at the daily devotional section of this Christian website and it had a portion on infidelities in a marriage etc. So I sent it to my H and one of his co workers, (yes the one I thought he was sleeping with but realized that he wasn't. It was just my insecurities).<P>About an hour or so later I get a pop up message from my H asking what was up with the message that I sent to him and his co-worker. He took it as me accusing him and this co worker of having an affair when that wasn't what I meant at all. I wanted him to read it to let him know that after my affair that we could make things work if we just trusted in the Lord. I also know that the co worker's husband has accused her as well of having an affair even though she never has. I just thought it would be helpful.<P>Now I don't know what to do next. I never meant to accuse my H of sleeping with this co worker again but that is how he took it. How do I convince him that isn't what I meant?

Hi hopeful,<P>Try and stop beating yourself up. It was a miscommunication. Just explain it to him when he gets home.