According to Dr. Harley, the WS is supposed to answer questions about A. Currently, H is still "seeing" OW. OW told H in October, 2000 that she was pregnant and baby was H's. Baby is supposed to be due this week. Anyway, H is beginning to wonder whether OW is really pregnant. H said that he only slept with OW one time (I know isn't this what all WSs'say).<P>According to H if OW does not have baby by tomorrow--the baby is NOT H's. H is very adament about this so maybe H did only sleep with OW once. Also, long before the news of pregnancy in October, H said he only slept with OW once in late June, 2000. So, maybe H is telling the truth.<P>For those who don't know my story, OW had lived with H for about 1 month last July. At that point, H wanted to work on our marriage and could not stand OW's 4 kids so H kicked OW out. H and I were working on marriage (very rough because I was crying alot, etc.). This was before I had found MBers.<P>Then, OW called in October with news of pregnancy. H hid this from me until I found out he was at her place in December. H then told me about pregnancy. H believes that OW is terrible mother and if baby is his, we would try to get full custody (long story about OW's history).<P>Anyway, H did not want OW to know that he and I were together. He says he was worried Ow would try to harm baby or leave the state, etc. So, I knew that H was getting OW groceries so baby did not starve and taking OW places she needed to go. Ow has no job, no car, etc.<P>It was very hard on me knowing that H still sees OW. So, I seek constant reassurance from H regarding his feelings for OW and when H is going to tell OW that he knows she has been using him and lying about baby being his. Whenever I ask H he usually tells me we've been over all this before. If I don't stop, usually H has an angry outburst.<P>How can I get H to understand my feelings and fears as long as OW is still in the picture? H is supposed to be telling OW that he is finished playing her game tomorrow. Any advice would really be appreciated.<P>Dolphin