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Ok, just need a little advice. This morning my ex-h (we've trying to work things out) got up to get ready for work. This is the conversation:<P>Me: Did you find what you were looking for?<BR>Him: You know I don't like being talked to in the morning!<BR>Me: I'm sorry.<P>He got dressed and left for work. No goodbye, no nothing and I'm sitting here wondering what the h**l is going on. He had to be at work at 6am so around 1pm I called to see how he was doing. He usually calls (we have those nextel radios for easy access to each other)several times each day, but not today. So...I nicely ask him if I did something wrong. He says "no." I said oh, okay I was just wondering because it seemed like maybe you were mad at me. There is no reply from him. I finally ask if he is still there. He says, "Yes, and if you don't quit asking me if I'm mad you, I'm going to be mad at you!" I'm sitting here with my jaw on the floor speechless for a minute. I finally said "I'm sorry, it is just unusual that I haven't heard from you all day." He turns his radio off and it has been off ever since.<P>I have no clue what is going on...do y'all see something I did that I'm not aware of? I mean everything was okay last night when we went to bed. <P>The stress from trying to make this work with a person who is so unpredictible is becoming more than I can bear. I'm considering writing him a note (nicely) and trying to communicate that way. However, I'm afraid to say anything at this point for fear of what will happen. Am I crazy or what?<P>

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Hi tulip,<P> Is he the WS?<P>------------------<BR>Deb

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Yes, he was the ws. We were divorced over the whole mess last June.<P><BR>

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Hi,<P> How long were you M? <P>------------------<BR>Deb

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We were together for 14 years and have been married for a total of six years.


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