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Hello,<BR>I still think at times that there is something I could say or do to penetrate the Infidelity armor of my ws.<P>It is as if "no show of human love from me or our children" will bring him to the point of feeling our pain.<P>What does bring them to that point? I am sure that it is not the same circumstances-- but something traumatic has to happen between the ws and the op...just to separate the two of them...to bring the ws to the realization that their<BR>decisions cost them so much that they once held so dear...<P>And then, are they willing to find their way back in search of what they lost along the way as they went astray...<P>elo<P>
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That's the way I understand it elo. Once the relationship ends between OP and WS is when they want to work on the relationship.<P>There are some BS's that realize the mistake they're making well before this and return to work on the M but I think in my case, and probably yours too, we just have to wait until it ends between OP and them. I think it is important to be following either plan A or B during this time though.
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