HI ALl,<BR>TGIF!!!!!<BR>As some of you know, I have recetnly moved back out west. I have a great new job, and close to kids and family. It feels great! I have been very happy abt this move.<BR>Until today......I came home from work tonight and h was excited. He had bought us a house that we looked at a few weeks ago. Sounds good huh!? EXCEPT, the dang house is on a street with the same name as one of the OWs. <BR>We looked at a lot of houses, and only a few fit our needs. This one is an ok house, but be had quite a different idea on price than the owners. I figured it would never happen, so chose not to risk an LB by bringing up the piddly fact that the last name of one of the most vile OWs is the same as the street name. <BR>H is dense.........<BR>How does one go about getting a street name changed?<BR>I cannnot mention it now-it would be a major LB at this point. H is so proud that he made such a shrewed deal. <BR>Oh dear. Advice?????

Turn it around in your mind....You and H now *own* her!! you are together, where you want to be, with a good job, close to family...and everytime you drive by the sign (alone), smile and flip her off knowing you *own* a piece of her forever!! <P>*Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.*<P>Trueheart

CL, Geez they never do wake up sometimes ! But you know I bet he never made the connection between the street and ow names. <P>Sometimes men are goofy like that. Mike for example, made arrangments to go to his new friends house this weekend. PROBLEM, this weekend (Sunday) is my 43rd birthday ! Aaaarrrrgggghhhhhhh ! And he doesn't understand why it upset me. Pardon me I must go make a damnit doll and beat the stuffing out of it now.

TH, can I shoot holes in the sign? Maybe I need to let off some of the steam? Just kidding, really. <BR>Perfect idea. I need to take more control of this situation, get on top of it. <BR>I guess I just was in such a state of shock! Somehow managed to be all bright-eyed and happy for the 1/2hr i saw h. He is now gone for the eve, so I can make some plan on dealing with this issue. Thanks TH. <BR>Deb, our men seem to have lost their brains somewhere? Gads, they do so good, then seem to fall right into the mud, face down? You are going with him, right?<BR>Happy birthday young girl! Any chance they have you on the picylated treatment I have been hearing abt? Keep in touch, cl

CL,<P>I doubt I will go with him. I wasn't invited and I'll be darned if I force my way in, not my style. I'm not too worried despite how the last A happened, this guys w just had a 9 lb baby yesterday so I don't think there will be any "Good clean kinky" stuff happening (Sorry, that line still gets me !<P>No I am not on the pegalated interferon. If the round of combo I am on doesn't last (am in remission now, treatment should end after this month) after treatment ends then that may be next.<P>Thanks for the bday wish

ps, maybe get a big dog and teach it to pee on the sign pole ? (Wicked evil grin)

I'd see it as a great opportunity to feel like you're walking all over her.. in more of a literal sense than most of us would get.<P>I would imagine, that in time, the street name will be just that. Only a street name.<P>Karen<BR>

cl<BR>I just e-mailed you with my first thoughts on this. We'll work on it. I know that you will turn this to your advantage. <BR>For now have a drink on me. And one for Deb....an early B-day drink!<BR>Happy B-day Deb! It's Friday night, I'm alone and I'm giving a toast to old friends.

Well folks, i think this should be turned into a birthday party thread! <BR>Yep, we will take that silly little street sign and overcome all!!! <BR>Cheers wassi, deb, th,and topie. <BR>Deb, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<BR>

Thank you Wassi. Yeah I am home alone too, Mike is working, son is out with friends (we won't even discuss his half blonde half blue hair or the tongue ring and the piercing under his bottom lip, or him going to Dallas on the forth and spending a couple of days in a motel with a girl. )<P>I think I'll take a nap !

Cheers Ladies!!!!<BR>It took me a while to get back ....chores ya know.<BR>Then I had a drink to toast each of you. <P>cl<BR>I agree with Topie..walk all over her!<BR>Enjoy it.<P>Deb<BR>I'm sorry you're alone. My H and son are working in bimboland. They've been there for 12 days. Sure hope H has a brain or two and the bimbo doesn't come to visit with son there. <BR>BTW when I said "old friends" I didn't mean "old"!!!<BR>43 is just a puppy you know!!!!

Cheers ladies, <BR>you have all talked me into making this a positive experience (though he is still dense!)<BR>I am so glad you all were here to listen to me whine again. Thanks. <BR>

whew.....headache this morning!<BR>

Aha ! Cl is hung over ! I knew there was a good reason for me going to bed early. <P>Cl, I talked to Mike about this this morning and he said that your h probably didn't make the connection between the street name and ow. Men are just like that sometimes.<BR>Of course we women do tend to think about those things. (Or maybe it is a WS BS thing) <P>So anyway I am off to watch trading spaces on TLC and then later to buy me some hair for my birthday (I'm tired of feeling like a half bald freak when I go out in public) Y'all behave ! <P>

cl has a hangover??????<BR>Shame on you girl. I had a toast for each of you then stopped. Just enough to be a little obnoxious when H phoned home from bimboland. Oh well .....we are all a bit human I guess.<P>Deb we you are a party pooper! <BR>You better buy more for your birthday than just hair. I want to hear that you treated yourself.<P>cl...Mike and Deb are right. Your H didn't even think of it. That is probably a good thing. The OW doesn't even cross his mind.