Hi! I haven't been around lately because life has been so uncertain. My H is still lying and the OW I feel is still around. He says that I am constantly bringing her up and he wants me to stop it. He says that he could not just end it because she was going to stalk me. Cause some kind of problem. Like Fatal Attraction.The OW called my voice mail and left me a message. I did not know who it was, so I deleted it. All the OW said was Hi...just want to talk to you...I am concern for my safety. I am in the service industry and I really do not know my customers when they walk in the door. It could possibly be OW or one of her friends. She knows where I work!!!!..I told my H that I would not go thru counseling again (the third time) if the OW is still present. He says that she is gone! I do not belive him.<BR>I also was wondering when does the romance return? I ask him to suck my neck, he says that I'm too sexual. I need to to want so much love from he. He is not the touchie feeliy person. I use to love to cuddle etc. Now, I'm the one who needs to put my sexual desires on the shelf. he says that he use to chase me and I was not interested in sex. How can I be with three small tots? Now, the children are grown 16,14,10..I want this marriage to work. He says that he loves me and that he had made a huge mistake in his life ..as he calls it.. a poor judgement call...<BR>One last question...when is it really over? the OW, marriage. and when is the love gone. I'm not ready to give up. All my friends walked that path to divorce. They want me to divorce him too.. They say that I will take him anyway as long as I have him in the house. I don't agree. I honestly love him. Please any ideas??????
