I don’t know what I’m looking for here, perhaps a little support. Or maybe just a laugh. Or possibly some advice.<P>I know I haven’t posted in awhile, I’ve been doing plan A with my H and doing a fairly good job of it. H and I get along as though nothing ever happened (1 year since D-Day). The only difference is he has been living with a friend instead of at home. It was a mutual agreement for both of us. I know the A is over, he hasn’t seen her for over a month—no contact.<P>Well, she’s back. Last weekend, her relative was talking with us in our yard and OW’s children ran over wanting to play with ours, which brought her into our yard. She then socialized. <P>(I never enforced a no—contact letter, it would have been a major LB. I decided to just do a magnificent plan A and he would return, because he never wanted to leave to begin with. I was driving him away with my LB (pre-MB).) <P>Anyway back to my story, this weekend she came over to socialize again while she returned a tool she had borrowed and asked for advice on something. <P>(I’ve gone though this before with her. You talk to her once then she thinks she can come over all the time. I got in her face and told her to go home,the last time. So she stopped hanging around for awhile.)<P>Okay, so Sunday night rolls around and H has spent to whole weekend at home (I think he is considering moving back in—which is fine with me), he’s watching t.v. when he spots her car driving by. He then gets up to close the blinds (she sneaks around). Later H goes to bed and I come in to join him. He whispers to me that he sees a shadow of someone walking back and forth among the houses.(she has family in the neighborhood) We watch and we see her. We snicker and laugh, he really bust on her (psycho-b!tch…etc.)<BR>I said she will probably wait until H leaves for work, in the morning and follow him. SHE DID!!! H came in to give me a kiss good-bye and said guess who I just saw driving down the street with no lights on? I watched H pull out and shortly there after she started her car and followed him. <P>That is where I am at in this situation. I guess I will have to wait until I get home from work to find out what happened…but as most of you know it’s the waiting that kills us. The not knowing… And of course, all those awful thoughts run threw our heads at times like these. That is why I’m posting, because I am having those awful thoughts.<P><BR>
