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~Beauty of a Woman~<BR>The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure she carries, or the way she combs her hair.<BR>The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides.<BR>The beauty of a woman Is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, The passion that she shows.<BR>The beauty of a woman only grows with passing years.

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Thanks Deb. I needed that. You're a dear. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]<P>I hope you are well and happy, Hon.<P>Jo

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Hi, Honey!!! Glad you picked one of my rare "lurking" days to post!!<P>That was beautiful. How're you doing, btw?<P>Love,<P>Lori

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Hi Jo and Lori, I'm fine, in fact I am better than fine. Combo treatment was complete in August, The HepC is in remission and I have to tell you I haven't felt this good in years. I didn't feel this good the last time I went into remission. Lots of prayers and the anti-viral seems to have made a big difference.<P>Our marriage is good now,(knock on wood, it seems everytime I write a good report something goes wrong , blah) we seem to be rolling right along. I hate to admit that I still have times when I am very insecure but heck after being burnt more than once I think it's normal to be.<P>Deb

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Lovely words to begin this thread...<P>...and an even better update! YAY, that you're feeling so good. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]<P>You're on of my hero's... just like Jo and Lori...

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Deb,<BR>It's good to see a little update from you. Sending you healing prayers.

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thank you. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

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Thank you, Deb! It is good to see your name again.

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I emailed those kinds of things to my wife when we first got to know each other. She Emailed similar things back. Then a few weeks later she slept with some other guy. we were married 9 months at that time. So now these beautiful words sometimes trigger negative emotions because my wife was very poetic and said things from the bottom of her heart. But after an affair it all becomes meaningless.

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Lor, Hi good to see you, so how are you guys doing ?<p>Sheryl, I'm flattered, thanks.<p>Faith1, I'm glad you liked it.<p>cleopatra, I'm glad you liked it too, I'm still around here, just don't say much.<p>Rodger, I am so sorry this triggered you. I understand about feeling that the beautiful words becoming meaningless. To me I lost the ability to see the words I Love You spoken between a husband and wife as beautiful during h's first A because he told me at time he didn't love me and never had. Funny how saying I don't love you can once was able to cancle out almost 8 years of I love yous at time. It's been almost 16 years and one additional A since then. And to this day hearing him say those words still doesn't mean what it did 16 years ago. [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] But we are still togeather and maybe one day my will be able to fully trust those words from him again.
Again I am sorry my post triggered you.


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