Good morning, everyone...<p>It seems to me that the majority of those here at MB are BS's and are the ones trying to plan A their WS's. I seem to be in the reverse position. As a FWW, I have been plan A'ing my H for the past 2 months. I have seen a tremendous improvement in his attitude and interactions with me. At first, he refused to speak with me entirely, but now he is back to the original/approachable person I have known for 9 years. I am trying to take one day at a time and respect him and allow him the time he needs to heal. <p>I love my H with all my heart and feel very guilty for betraying his trust and my M. I made the worst mistake of my life and will spend the rest of my life undoing the damage I have caused and proving to him that he is truly the only one for me.<p>I am curious if any other WS's are in the same position. And if so, what types of actions/things have worked for them. I also welcome any advice from BS's. Thank you for helping me.<p>[ January 09, 2002: Message edited by: sorrowful ]</p>

I think your situation is probably more common than you think. My WH had to plan A me. After finding out about his betrayal, I honestly didn't know how I would consider remaining married. He has plan A'd me, and continued to to "win" me back. It's a tough road.<p>if you really want to - you have to stick to it.