I wanna say thank you for being the only one who has replied to me with the same understanding as i have had....i was hoping that someone who understood me replies so that i dont feel helpless and hopeless and alone.....i am however, sorry to take you back a year ago and bring back memories...<p>I too feel that we are similar in some ways and i wanted to ask if you could help me with something...i know that my H is posting here too under the name veryhurtHarley but we promised not to read each other's posts. i was wondering if you could reply him or send him a post to let him know how you dealt with your situation and how you felt and what you had to go through bcos no matter what i am saying to him right now, it might be better if he had another person's opinion and feelings about this too....he has never had to deal with anyone with my condition and he is still coming to terms with that. This is asking too much of you so if you dont send him anything, i understand....but it would surely help in some ways.<p>My H doesnt have anyone else to talk to right now except BS' who post here and no one who are WW have explained to him what really goes on with their situations....i hope you understand how this will help and i thank you once again....<p>ps: i have never heard of a treatment center here in my country like the one you went to....guess it wouldnt do any harm to find out....

I am gonna do a search on your husband now and see what I can do to help.<p>Will reply in a bit<p>Take Care<p>PJ