<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by BMWM:
<strong> But now I see how much of every day life was hard for me because I wanted everything done my way, and could not see that there way was OK.</strong><hr></blockquote><p>This is sooo true and I find often it's the silliest little things. I came home from work the other day and discover that instead of just mopping the kitchen floor as suggested, my husband mopped the floor and REARRANGED the FURNITURE. I, of course, immediately hate it, but wonder -- do I hate it because HE did it? I'm very proud of myself, though. I really, really hate it, but I'm not going to put everything back the way it was and I'm not going to say a single word. And I'm not going to get upset about it either. After all, it's just a table, chairs, and microwave cart NOT the end of the world. I even reinforced the new arrangement by moving the bird's cage out there into the newly created space!