Well, I am getting that sinking feeling again. Last Monday I posted that my wife's Morning went unaccounted for and she got very angry and defensive when I made the least bit of inquiry. I let it go. <p>I have noticed many little things that she is doing, like hugging me, sending me "I love you" notes, etc. But I don't trust the motive. It could be she is trying to cover up for a renewal of OM relationship, or it could be real.<p>Well, yesterday she called me. After we hung up I remembered something and called her right back. She got real annoyed, accusing me of checking up on her. Then she became unavailable again for 4 1/2 hours (cell phone not answering). She told me Monday nite she would be home all day Tuesday cleaning and other stuff. But instead, she was out. When she picked me up at 7:45 (15 minutes late) she said she had been washing her makeup off. When I asked why she had put makeup on if she was cleaning all day, she again got all defensive and angry. She also mentioned that alot of people were down at the beach, but when I asked her if she walked on the beach she again was evasive and said no, that she only drove by. But there was sand in the car floorboard and in her shoes. More lies.<p>On the other hand, she seems more attentive than ever. Last nite she asked me to come to bed and then held me. This morning she called me to say Hi and she loves me. On the other hand, before we went to sleep I asked her very nicely if she could please keep her cell phone on, and she said it was on all day but that she can never get it out of her pocketbook in time to answer(more lies). Then she got angry saying I can't check up on her all day long.<p>Finally-OM's AOL Profile has changed again. He knows I read his profile-he has even included little inside jokes to get at me. Now his profile says he is "still missing that special someone", his hobby is "waiting patiently for his dream to come true" and his occupation is "enjoying the present". <p>Note that there has been no PC contact. OM has not called my house. WW has not talked to OM on the cell. So only possible contact would be WW calling OM, using some type of calling card. OM can't contact WW w/o me knowing- so I don't know how they can be making plans to meet (he lives 2 hours away-so plans must be made).<p>But I have that sinking feeling again.<p>I know what I need to do- I just am looking for some encouragement and support.<p>[ April 17, 2002: Message edited by: Boppo57 ]</p>