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I have no evidence. Yes. But at the moment she is supposed to be in a meeting. But she is out.
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What spyware do you have in place?
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I just checked Google+ location. She said she would attend a meeting. But she looks like she is at a shopping mall.
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Step #1 get to work on your spying! You need spyware on her phone. If you know she is someplace she is not supposed to be then why aren't you there? GPS is useless if you aren't going to follow up and find out what she is doing. You have to get hard evidence of an affair.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Could you recommend an alternative to webwatcher? Full set does not look affordable for me. At least my wife might recognize the difference in our account balance.
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What kind of phone does she have? Have you checked out the Operation Investigate forum?
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If money is a big issue, you coukd try what I did. Get a cheap cell phone from Walmart and download a voice recorder app on it and a tracking app and tape it under her car seat and anywhere else you can think of. I bought one for about $25 and it works perfectly. The apps were free too.
I didn't pay for any minutes though, so the tracking app woukd only show up whenever she got within range of the home wifi. But it was good because it would store everywhere she went that day and I could pull it up when she got home. Or for a few dollars every month you could activate the service and see her in real time.
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If money is a big issue, you coukd try what I did. Get a cheap cell phone from Walmart and download a voice recorder app on it and a tracking app and tape it under her car seat and anywhere else you can think of. I bought one for about $25 and it works perfectly. The apps were free too.
I didn't pay for any minutes though, so the tracking app woukd only show up whenever she got within range of the home wifi. But it was good because it would store everywhere she went that day and I could pull it up when she got home. Or for a few dollars every month you could activate the service and see her in real time. I did that last night.
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Urgent Please !!!
Last night I have placed a VAR (old android phone with VAR software) in her car. And While I was inspecting her phone I have found that OM is from a company that they work together. I woke her and asked if she was with him at the mal. After hiding the truth for a while she confessed that she was with him at the mall after work. :.(
When I asked what is she thinking to do. First she said she wanted to come back to me .. I kept on inspecting her phone . She resisted and started to say that she doesn't want to quit and she want divorce.
Now she headed to work (I believe so) besides I can't track via google+. I guess she turnd off her location.
What should I do? Please help.
All I have read at MB site flew from my mind. I am in panic.
Please help.
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She called a few minutes ago. and she said that she will do her urgent job and come home to talk about divorce. she said she doesn't want me anymore.
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I have exposed to her family (parents and sisters). God help me.
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She phoned. She wants me to leave the house. She will call an attorney. Please I need advice.
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I have exposed to his boss and a coworker.
Please help me with exposure to our son
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She phoned. She wants me to leave the house. She will call an attorney. Please I need advice. Don't leave the house, of course. Just finish your exposures. Is the OM married? Call his wife and tell her.mYou should expose to his family and friends via his Facebook page. Hopefully you read my exposure thread.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I have exposed to his boss and a coworker.
Please help me with exposure to our son Did you read the exposure thread? Exposing to Children
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I have completed exposure except for OM side. I'll do it as soon as I get contact information. She is pissed off and wants me to leave home. We agreed on staying in separate rooms till I get a job. We agreed do separate after I get a job. I hope to I will convince her to be together since than.
Her boss and family backed her up. I don't know what to do next.
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If money is a big issue, you coukd try what I did. Get a cheap cell phone from Walmart and download a voice recorder app on it and a tracking app and tape it under her car seat and anywhere else you can think of. I bought one for about $25 and it works perfectly. The apps were free too.
I didn't pay for any minutes though, so the tracking app woukd only show up whenever she got within range of the home wifi. But it was good because it would store everywhere she went that day and I could pull it up when she got home. Or for a few dollars every month you could activate the service and see her in real time. How did your case end?
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I have completed exposure except for OM side. I'll do it as soon as I get contact information. She is pissed off and wants me to leave home. We agreed on staying in separate rooms till I get a job. I hope to I will convince her to be together since than.
Her boss and family backed her up. I don't know what to do next. Her boss and family endorse adultery?  That is an odd reaction. I would get your exposures to the OM's family completed TODAY before it is too late.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I think some didn't believe that there is an affair and some give credit to her because she says she is not happy with me.
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