PP:<P>Hi. I just wanted to apologize again for letting my emotions get the best of me yesterday. You were angry and hurting, and I let your anger push me into a position that I never like to let myself get into.<P>You are very right that I had no business calling names. I can't unring the bell, so to speak, but I can apologize for being insensitive.<P>Having said that, let me tell you that I thought alot about your situation (or at least what I know of it from your posts) last night, and I just wanted to offer ONE suggestion.<P>Are you and your H seeing a counselor? I seem to recall that you said he finally agreed to go, but I couldn't remember. I don't mean to suggest that you can't handle your own problems, but my wife and I benefitted SO much from professional help, that I thought I'd at least share that with you.<P>I am certain that a counselor can help you guys heal constructively. I went back and read some of your later posts yesterday, and I did see some softening that I was too angry to see yesterday. Let me reiterate that I am VERY glad you and your H are on the way to repairing your marriage.<P>I think you will find a lot of great people here willing to listen and offer constructive advice. Whether or not you ever choose to accept assistance or advice from me, please know that it was never my intention to get angry or to resort to childish name-calling. I hope you'll accept my apology and have a little patience with ME too. These situations are, to say the least, fraught with wild emotions. If nothing else, you've taught me that I don't have as good a grip on my temper as I thought I had.<P>Welcome to MB. Let's get to the healing.<P>------------------<BR>/// Lone Star * ///<P>