I have been reading your story for some time now and it is a lot like mine.

I can't make my cheating wife leave and I don't dare leave or it will hurt my chances for custody of my kids. Even Dr. Harley says don't leave although I've been in Plan A for over 6 months.

The only thing is, she hasn't served me with papers. But she threatened to several months ago after I called the other guy and tried to break up the affair.

Dr. Harley told me, divorce or not, stick with it for two years if you really want to stay with this woman. He seems convinced the affair will die out, but he tells me that this doesn't mean she will definitely want to have a relationship with me again.

She has changed so much and is so mean it makes me wonder who this person is!