I should be served today or tomorrow. The announcement was a complete surprise to me. I've got a thread going on ENs that gives a history if you are interested.

I understand completely how you feel. Everyone says it will get better, it's just a matter of surviving it now. Good luck.

Me: 48 XW: 44 DD: 15
Lived Together: 7 Married: 18 Total: 25 years
W announced divorce 11-3-2006, I moved out 11-7-2006, served papers 11-8-2006. Divorce final 12-19-2006. Life gets better every day.