Yeah - I know. Its like "I'll do things to make her happy and show affection and attention" ... no, wait "we're getting too close, just be my friend". Its confusion, but he must be going through a very confusing time right now.

I could check phone records, as our cells are on the same bill under my name. I could check email and myspace. I could tap his phone. I could have him followed when he is in her town. I just really want to honor his request - what if this whole thing is all just a test?

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]