He could be home all week or could be gone again on Friday ... will know better early in the week.

you are still married to him. he is going through a rough time. you betrayed him (sorry!) and he is going through this. you have decided that it was a mistake and want to save the M. sounds to me like he has tried and decided not to (sorry!). the posters here vehemently believe that this can be worked out. and so do I.

At times I think he does, and at times I think he doesn't ... again, the roller coaster. I think we can work this out, but I also thing that we BOTH have to be willing to do what it takes. My only requests to him: continue what he's been doing to improve communication and attention, not quit having sex, drop this friendship with this girl. I'll do whatever he needs to work on this too.

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]