Good morning. Don't ever worry about long posts. This is the place to ramble, vent, etc.

Your H has a lot of pain to work through. You can't make it go any faster for him. But you can continue to show with your actions that you really are committed to making your M work.

Forgiveness is a process. It takes time for both a WS and BS to go through all the yuck and emotions to get to forgiveness.

Give yourself time to forgive yourself. That will help in healing your M as well.

I'm in your cheering section. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther

Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!