Thanks so much! He says he has forgiven me already and that he's not mad. This is most concerning because if he has forgiven and isn't mad and still doesn't want to be married, he's given up on this M. It is so hard to accept that this M is over ... I'm not giving up, but it is hard to think in terms of us not being together.

Since he travels so much, I thought that phone counseling with the Harleys may be our best bet. What does everyone think?

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]