Well, he surprised us this morning! He came home from out of town around 9:30 am! This was quite a surprise ... he was supposed to be home in the afternoon long enough to shower & change clothes before heading back out. Instead, DD & I got about 1/2 a day with him! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

It was nice, except the one moment where he felt the need to reiterate the fact that he is going out with friends on our anniversary. He really went into it saying things like: "you didn't really expect us to celebrate our anniversary did you?" It was hurtful, but I am trying to understand his feelings.

I keep wondering something ... if he really wanted to leave me and get a D, wouldn't he be gone already? Or am I reading WAY too much into us still living together (and sleeping together)?

Last edited by time_for_change; 03/10/07 06:55 PM.

Happily Recovered from Double Infidelity! \:\)
DD1[about to turn 7]
DD2[due at X-mas]