He seems to put forth a false effort - like he's doing all this just to appease me. Then he goes off and calls & text messages this girl over and over and over again. He was even texting her during my private portion of therapy with the Harleys! Then he called her at 1 am and the darn cell phone is on death grip! I can't get to it, so I don't know much ... except the fact that I feel like I'm going crazy!