Talked to his mom last night - it went really well and she is very supportive. (She is a therapist.) We are both really worried about how he's [not] handling this. He has agreed to take this trip (2 weeks) to really think things through. He called this morning and was talking about selling the house, etc. He said these are the things he's going to think about over the next 2 weeks. He hasn't dealt with the pain, anger, or situation at all ... I wish he would see an IC before he goes so that someone would give him some guidance on what to think about other than splitting assets!