Turns out MIL had a chat with H about his drinking and pulling away from DD and those who love him. She reminded him that DD & I need him and love him and vice versa. She also told him that he shouldn't make any decisions right now, that he really needs to take some time to think things through. She was concerned (rightfully so) and wanted to talk to him about it before he went out of town. Glad she did. Hopefully he will consider all this on his trip. I love my MIL - she is such a smart and loving lady!

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