TFC,my IC told me the same thing,and I am dealing with the same behavior as you from my H and it's wearing me down!My H waited a year for me to get it together so in the back of my head I think I should wait that long as well,although I don't know if I can hold out for that long!And it also depends on him!By the way,he left the party before I arrived last night!I really don't understand why he is acting this way!We have been together for 10 years and he can't be at the same party as me!It hurts so bad that he is completely ignoring me and avoiding me!