I don't expect him to "get over it" ... I just want him to make the decision to TRY at this M. I think we could work this out if only he would try. I am trying to omit LBs. He doesn't know that I know about his OW, so I don't bring that up. I try not to talk about the M, R, etc. and just be loving, kind, and patient. I suppose I will try to perfect my Plan A before deciding on a time limit.