He was cold and distant just now. He said (on his own) that he was trying not to distance himself. I told him he was being great with DD (not great, but better than usual) but had made it obvious over the last 2 days that he had no interest in talking to me. He said he was sorry and didn't mean to, that he would call me later to talk. I said "you are always welcome to call if you want to, but if you don't feel like it you don't have to". I am thinking of Plan B. Problem is he won't move out! I am thinking about going on to the beach a day early (the day he was supposed to be with us)- is this wrong?