DD called to tell him g'nite - he actually answered the phone! After they were done, he asked to speak to me. He apologized for not calling - said he was working the whole drive. I told him (in a sticky sweet voice) "don't worry about it - i said to call if you wanted to talk. you didn't want to talk. its really no big deal. hope you have a good night!" He went on to say he really was working, I told him not to worry about it. I was super-nice, and just got off the phone with him. He sounded stunned. I just read the post about how if the WS can't hurt you, the A can end ... let's hope that happens before I am as checked out of this M as he is.