So TFC,what are you going to do if he wants to get separated?Just sit back and wait for him to play and hope he decides he wants to be M again!I am so overwhelmed with my situation!It's hard being separated cuz you don't know what their doing!I haven't even heard from mine in over a week!How do you work on a M when you are separated?Out of sight,out of mind!Although my H was never out of my mind during my A,and we were separated then!It just made it easier when I didn't see or talk to him cuz when I saw him or heard the hurt in his voice it killed me!