That's a good question jks! Next week I will be at the beach with DD and will be sure to set aside time to really work on my plan. As much as he travels, its almost like we're separated anyway. And, just because we're separated doesn't mean I won't know what he's doing ... you have to remember that my H is a public figure and I always find out something.

If he needs to "play" to figure out if he wants our M or not, I don't really have room to stop him. And I'd rather him "play" on his own, rather than DD wondering why Daddy lives with us but spends the night out.