Exposure will be difficult, but I can do it. I'll start with the MIL & SIL. He is sort-of self-employed, but she goes to see him when he's working. It isn't a "normal" career, but I don't want to give away too much info. As I mentioned before, he is a public figure and I don't want to ruin his career (especially since I've supported it all these years). I can call people that are friends in his line of work. Most of them won't answer my calls, but it is worth a shot. My family knows already, and my dad can often be an influence in H's life. They'll get together soon, I'm sure.

What do you recommend I say when I call these people? "Hi. This is TFC. I wanted you to know that WH is having an A with OW. Please don't enable this behavior. I want to save my M."????

I have an appt w/ Steve H on Tuesday. I figured while I'm on vacation is a good time to get my plan into action.

Btw - I picked up "Not Just Friends" today. I'm tempted to leave it out on the counter when he's home, but I really need to read it first! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

So, after exposure, what's Step 2?

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