Technically I suppose SIL counts as 3 down ... she'll tell her H and mom before I can even dial their numbers! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

He needs to slow down on the drinking, but I wouldn't call him an alcoholic. He has been going out and drinking a lot more since DDay. It must be difficult to think with a clear head when drunk and/or hungover. He tends to blow off steam with a late night and a few cocktails, but it usually only lasts a day or so. We are just worried that it doesn't seem to be slowing down. (Btw - his OW is a party-girl, which of course enables this behavior.)