posters like longhorn and jl have lots of wisdom written between the words. I have spent countless hours (~100's) reading theirs and other posts for the last 2 yrs.

My advice is to read - some of the long time posters have a calm, conversation way of writing which seems to soothe the rawness of emotions. Read the posts/advice from JL to others in the same kind of sitch.

This forum has much to offer in learning about marriages, relationships and in short life in general.

W: 52
Married: 32 yrs
2 Sons (29 & 23)
1 Dtr (20)
1 GDtr (2.5) precious little girl