Oh! And, over vacation I talked to the girl from the pics. Get this ... SHE'S AN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL TEACHER!!! Nice. I want that kind of woman teaching my DD. Anyway, she is dating one of the other guys in the photos. I was super-nice about letting her know that I have them, asked if there were any more (there aren't), letting her know that I didn't particularly appreciate her breast in my H face, and that my concern was DD seeing something like this. She apologized for them and we ended the conversation amicably ... I wanted to be sure she couldn't hang up thinking "what a *itch"!

Also, H wasn't even sure about ending his A over the phone. So, I'm thinking that a NC letter will be difficult to get. I'm guessing a full-fledged Plan A is in order?