Well, TFC, I think it's too soon to expect him to strongly commit to the marriage at this point. It’s in the nature of the beast for human beings to resist doing something that would seem to render their past actions foolish and ill-conceived. Have patience, TFC. I don’t know how others think about this, but it might be something best approached in the safe forum offered by a good counselor. Don’t you have a session with SH coming up relatively soon?